Since starting TTWD I am overwhelmed by the number of deep and meaningful conversations that we have had. It is amazing! We talk about everything and anything, and I am not the one starting all the conversations. It is like we are dating again and hubby is eager to learn all there is to know about me. There are new things to explore, discussions to be had, old conversations getting re-hashed. I have not been this intoxicated with my hubby in years. I can't stop thinking about him. It is seriously like dating him all over again. What an amazing gift! I have always been told that once this feeling is over that is it, it is gone forever. Well I am here to tell you that 10+ years into marriage I have this feeling all over again and I couldn't be more thrilled.
Conversations are leading to so many amazing things! They lead to bedroom fun, they lead to date nights, they lead to serious issues we have been skirting for years... The possibilities are endless!!
This past week my hubby had to go away for a night for work. Because of the weather we have not seen much of each other at all and I decided to be spontaneous. I was able to arrange a sitter for the kids overnight and told my hubby I could come with him! He was thrilled, exhausted, but thrilled. Now being that it was work, this was not a romantic get away... But it was still amazing to spend time with my hubby and just be together... Without any of our beautiful offspring... I love them, but time away on our own is always wonderful.
|Seriously people! We were in bed by 9:00!|
On our way home we had to take a ferry home and we were both very tired... Him from working his butt off and me from getting up at 6... UGH! I don't understand you morning bloggers at all!! I wish I was like you, my body yells at me each time I pretend to be!! But anyway, we were sitting in his work truck, talking... And of course my favourite topic came up... Spankings... He was just curious if I was liking them... Well whats not to like about a GG Spanking!? Discipline, not so much, but I do like how I feel afterwards... It is kind of intoxicating really... He got a look on his face... "What?" I ask... He just grinned and said something about how much he likes the submissive me. AWE!! I love that man so much!
I don't really know how our conversation turned from spanking and submission... but I guess it is a semi-natural transition... We started fooling around in his truck!! In a ferry!! In broad daylight!! Now we had checked to make sure nobody was in their vehicles... but that doesn't mean the odd person doesn't walk by! Oh my, but it was fun!! A couple times I had to stop my... ummmm.... extra curricular activity below his belt... to pretend I was sleeping so a walker could go by and be none the wiser... Oh how I laughed and felt like I was getting away with something so bad! Hahaha! I'm sorry, this is way more detail than I usually give... But it was so much fun and it felt just like being 20 again... Only better... Cause now I'm married to my best friend, we have kids, we are happy and we are just overwhelmed by it all...
|We were still under the cover of the ferry, but you get the idea... |
Not the usual "secluded" make out spot!!
So I just thought I would write a quick post... It was kind of all over the place... But it does all kind of relate to communication... Cause that little ferry interlude would not have happened if he had been sleeping for the ferry crossing as he has so many times before... So communication truly is key to a good marriage!